Sounds like a five-year-old to me.
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I am so glad we did.
This last August, (2011-2012 school year) when Eddie started Kindergarten (again) he was with his same teacher, Mrs. J and while the first few days were an adjustment, after a couple weeks into the school year, he started coming home saying things like, "Mommy, we learned about "W" today," and, "Daddy, what does "B-U-S spell?" telling us that he was ready to start learning.
Now he's asking me to read multiple books to him every night, attempting to recognize words, read along, point to the words as I read, and I am just ecstatic! He comes home from school and as he exits the bus, he is smiling. This is such a change from just a year ago. He is really maturing and having that last year at home to "just be" really enabled him to be more secure I believe.
Equally charming as it is annoying, he now hones in on every single piece of scrap paper, junk mail, sticky note and sometimes, bills *gasp* to write on and ask about spelling. He writes his name on everything!! He talks of learning how to recognize and write numbers (make an "S", don't be late, go back up and close the gate - this makes an 8 - so cute!) as he does this little "sing-song" rhyme that helps him to memorize letters and numbers.
Yeah, he is well-socialized, he's older than most of the kids in his class and he's doing great. We'll try to keep from him the fact that he'll be able to write his own absence excuse notes the majority of his Senior year of high school. I'm pretty sure he'll be ok with being the first one to drive in his Sophomore year.
I think it's important that while some parents use school as a daycare, for the rest of us to realize that we only get one chance to rear our children. One chance to let them "be a kid" and only one chance at not making mistakes that will affect them negatively for life. Not that we should or shouldn't do things for fear of being summoned to the Jerry Spring or Oprah Show (not to be compared, but just as examples) but we should listen to our hearts when something "isn't right" and explore, for the child's sake, what the options are.
So, that's it. No pictures, just a happy mom on her soap box. Feel free to borrow it anytime you like.